Some folks have a very negative attitude about money, they think giving money is a cheap way to show affection, thoughtless and impersonal. Well, I dont think so.. I appreciate people who show their appreciation by putting their money where their mouth is!
   I think of a quote from Robert Heinlein: "Money is the sincerest form of flattery".. in our society, it is true! The people we love, actors, rock stars, authors.. we show our love by making them rich!
   "Money is power", and what better gift to give a Domina, but power in spendable form?
   Seriously, tho.. gifts of money show real caring, to me, and are more appreciated than other items on this list. Many of the gifts dominas recieve: lingerie, etc., are not really for the Dom.. they are to feed the fantasies of the giver. Essentially self centered.
    When someone gives me money, they show that they care about the real-world me, not just the fantasy me that they carry around in their heads. They show they care if I have a roof over my head, groceries on my table.

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