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The Myth of the Evil Bitch Goddess.

  "If you break your toys,
     you cannot play with them again."

One of the things people on the "outside" seldom realize when they consider D&S, or the role of the Dominatrix, is the role compassion and empathy play in these games.
   Practically speaking, no-one would offer their body as a toy to someone unless they were very sure they were going to get it back in one piece again afterwards.
   Unless they know they will get it back, better than it was before.
   Emotionally and physically.

Mystress hugging her beloved slave-husband.    Empathy is very very important. the ability to reach in and understand the emotions of another human being.
   Particularly when you're playing a game where you are required to manipulate those emotions, turn them around and lead them along some scary edges, then bring them back to control of themselves Safely.

   Someone who is utterly without compassion we call a sociopath. Dangerous in their lack of conscience and empathy, like the "replicants" in the film Blade Runner.

    Although I suspect the replicants may be somebody's fantasy Dom, in real life these type of folks make scary headlines, sometimes followed by post execution photo portraits in cheezy tabloids.

I'm quite a skilled natural hypnotist, it's not unusual for people to enter trance states when they're really focused on their ..you know, you just focus on your breathing, you attain a trance state, let alone if you're focused entirely on, say,...the clothespin on your left nipple, that can induce a pretty good trance state.

So subs. become very suggestible and I can shift them this way and shift them that way.... lead them down mental pathways of fantasy experiences made very real in their fulfillment. A stage hypnotist, taking Her subjects into another world where things made of imagination and suggestion are solid and real.

With that Power, certainly comes a lot of responsibility.

   "Do what thou wilt, but do no harm"-
 Witches Law.
    I'm not interested in accidentally doing some kind of cult brainwashing so that someone becomes totally dependent on Me.
   A Safe, Sane, Consensual encounter is not about spiraling into depression because you've been getting your ego trashed on a deep unconscious level.

Many very common SM erotic themes, if studied from a brain science point of view, can have exactly that result.
   SM classics like "Justine" by the Marquis De Sade, were actually written by a man in prison whose pen was his only outlet for his sociopathic, non-consensual and abusive sadistic urges.

One reason that I am so motivated to do this teaching, is because I have seen too much harm done by people who do not understand how powerful this stuff can be, and that fiction is sometimes never meant to be made real.

The result of censorship is that ideas on SM is are gleaned from Madonna videos and faked porn. The things that are seen in pictures, are not real. People think they are real and try them out, sometimes with disastrous results.
    Mebbie I am a radical, but I think there should be sex education available for all types of sexual orientation.
   I regularly get mail from men asking for fantasies that they have seen pictures of, or read about, and I must decline with the explanation that their fantasy, if lived out would likely finish with an emergency room visit. No, thanks. Like Mom used to say, "It's all fun and games till someone loses an eye."

I consider Myself a Healer.
   I'm highly empathic, one might even say psychic.
   Playing these games, and having these expressions, and actually being able to tune into the subs. under My control, tune into and actually share their experience, is the most remarkable thing I've ever done.

I've walked on fire, I've tried hang-gliding, I've done all kinds of things, but this kind of intensity of experience, expression, development, growth,... I just can't find anywhere else.

And it's a curious thing, that it's taken getting to really know kinky men (my Mother always warned me about,) to show Me where My Power is.
   The wise man has a healthy respect for Feminine Power, Feminine Intuition.
   Wise men are often sexually submissive to women!
   Misogyny is often the sign of an ignorant fella.

I also know that I am extremely vain, almost to the point of narcissism, and having the worship and adoration of slaves at my feet is very satisfying.

The unexpected bonus, from a personal growth point of view, was that I could not really appreciate and accept the admiration, until I felt I had grown into someone who is truly deserving of it, grown to be the best Myself that I could be.

On that path, I discovered My Life's Mission.
   I find it hysterically funny that so many of My personal qualities, that I'd always considered faults in real life, being headstrong and sadistic and aggressive: are celebrated in the Role Play arena. By expressing them there, I find they no longer show up elsewhere.

I have become an artistic snob, as a sadist.
   I'm really only interested in sharing My talent for exquisite torture with those wonderful submissive masochists who can truly appreciate it.
 disclaimer
   

I must qualify this statement by saying that I am not a trained Hypnotherapist, and the Playroom is not a Psychiatrists couch.
   Individuals suffering from deep emotional issues and trauma should seek the help of someone properly trained in a proper school, and who has the pretty papers on the wall to prove it.
    Not Me!
   I started doing self-hypnosis after I read a book about it when I was twelve, so I have had plenty of time to gather experience of the results of suggestion.
   And I am an ancient and powerful Witch, with a certain natural, intuitive talent for sensing the internal emotional processes of the individuals who ask for my assistance. Many lifetimes experience as a Shaman, largely still stored in unconscious memory but fueling intuition that could cut diamonds.
   But no Phd. after my name.

  "And if a woman dares to heal without hath been trained, then she is a witch and must die."
From the "Malleus Maleficarum."

(c.1486. The Witch Hunters Bible. )


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If you enjoyed this essay, you may be interested in learning more at the
Fire Serpent Tantra: Kundalini Mystery School.

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