Mystress Angelique Serpent. The Vault. In Praise Of Submissive Men.

Yeah?
I'd like to see some of those macho guys have the intestinal fortitude to allow someone to tie them down and whip them, hey macho guys? Not that brave?

Generally, men who are sexually submissive tend to have a lot of power and responsibility in their real life.
They make a lot of decisions for a lot of people, a lot of the time.

Men who are sexually submissive tend to have above average education, intelligence, and income levels.

I have sometimes noticed a correlation that the more at ease they are with their sexual needs, no matter how unusual they may be, the more successful they are in their other life.
It gives them balance in their lives, that's what they tell me.

You're under a lot of pressure, all the time, making a lot o f decisions, a lot of responsibilities that are going to affect a lot of other people, what better vacation could there be, than to take an hour, chuck all of it, and be somebody's slave for a while?

In "The Story Of O", "O" tries to express the kind of freedom submissive people find in enslaving themselves to another.
   It sounds like such a contradiction, like the contradiction in that there is freedom in commitment.
   The idea being, once you are committed to something, you're not being pulled in all kinds of directions by other options anymore.
   You are free to pursue your passion, you're free to pursue that which you commit to.

And in a way, by limiting yourself to that to which you are committed, you're free from making decisions, and making decisions could be the hardest part about being human, couldn't it?

To not have to make any decisions, even for themselves, for a little while, for some people, is the ultimate vacation.

Truly, for a man to choose to serve his Lady is a very classical romantic gesture.
When you think of submissive men, think of white knights on chargers;
"To thee my lady I pledge my troth, and I shall serve thee all my days."

When we look to nature, in monogamous relationships, most often the purpose of the male is to protect and support the female and the children.
Spend all your time finding food, and keep a sharp lookout, and go get eaten so Mom and the kids can get away!

Not for the weak of heart, not for wimps, certainly.
It takes a lot of strength to surrender. It takes a lot of courage to trust your fate to someone else.

So if submissive men are noble knights on white chargers, pledging their power in support of women and children, I want you to keep in mind those same knights regularly beat the crap out of each other.

There is an expression that says that Leaders are born, not made.
    It only follows then that subs. are born, not made.
    There is no point in feeling guilty for sexual needs that don't fit within the norm.
   It's not necessarily something you consciously chose.
   It's who you are.

When we encounter individuals who are rejecting their own sexual needs, we find this is a cause of greatly reduced self esteem, resulting in repression, depression, and oppression.

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