Not in My Playroom! (My limits.)
Mystress sez on another page:
The result of censorship is that ideas on SM is are gleaned from Madonna videos and faked porn. The things that are seen in pictures, are not real. People think they are real and try them out, sometimes with disastrous results.
Mebbie I am a radical, but I think there should be sex education available for all types of sexual orientation, including BDSM.
I regularly get mail from men asking for fantasies that they have seen pictures of, or read about, and I must decline with the explanation that their fantasy, if lived out would likely finish with an emergency room visit. No, thanks.
LikeMomused to say, "It's all fun and games till someone loses an eye."
To make things simpler, I have decided to make a list of the many practices which I consider too dangerous to muck with. This is not a judgment of those who choose those practices, but a list of my own limits.
#1 on the "No!" list would have to be breath control games. Suffocation, cruxifiction, gas masks, strangling, face sitting, plastic wrap, inflatable gags, rubber hoods, hanging, dunking, "Sleeper" holds, flesh hook suspension, (Sundance. O kee pa), .. if it restricts your abilty to breathe, it won't happen with me. On the contrary, an aspect of my slave training is teaching you to invoke your body's endorphin response. I'll be ordering you to breathe into the sensations like a rabid lamaze instructor.
#2. Castration. I get a sincere request from someone seeking castration every few months or so.. yes Virginia, there really are wanna be eunuch slaves.
On general principles, I support a person's right to do with their body as they wish, and have some sympathies for those who are unable to attain what they seek.
However as a Tantric Witch, and genuine sadist, I would much rather harness the sexual energy for trancendence, than chop it off. Testicles are for fastening leashes to..(grin) Not for storing in formaldehyde. They are sacred.
Philosophy aside, tho, castration is major surgery, involving many large blood vessels and body systems, with permanent emotional and physical effects. The sudden 90% drop in testosterone levels usually causes a major depression that has been known to be fatal. (suicide)
I am not a medical Doctor, or a Nurse (Tho I play one on TV, as the joke goes..) and I am not going to be doing surgery on anyone, or any other practise that would require a medical licence that I do not posess.
#3... Such excluded practices would include catheterization, high colonic enemas, bloodletting, and anything that would result in inducing unconsciousness, such as chloroform, knockout pills, cartoid pressure, "Sleeper" holds, and ether. I would much rather have a plaything who is awake, responsive.. and passing out can cause a stroke. There are good reasons why anaestesiologists require years of training.
#4. No acts of prositution or pimping. Prostitution is legal in Vancouver, as is Domination. However combining prostitution and Domination is not.
Which is fine with me, coz no way would I wanna be a prostitute.. some things, cannot be bought. Not from Me, at least. Asking me for sexual contact will only get your face slapped.
This regulation also precludes my bringing in a third party for sexual contact.. I get requests for fantasies involving sex or sexual contact with a slave that I am requested to provide.
That would be pimping, it's illegal and I won't do it.
Nor will I do anything unhygenic, that involves any exchange of bodily fluids.
Another commonly asked for and remarkably unrealistic fantasy is trampling with stilettos. Many pix of this fantasy can be found on the net, and usually in the pictures you cannot tell that the Domina does not actually have much weight on the stilettos or the submissive, a'tall... but male fantasy doesn't look at such details with the critical eye that a Pro like myself would.
Men: two heads, and blood enough for only one head at a time..
In other pictures she is being "balanced" by assistants.. but a careful eye will show they are actually holding her up, as she gingerly tiptoes on the sub.
Walking around in my stiletto heels, I chip concrete and dimple hardwood floors. If there is someone reading this who can tell me how many pounds or kilos per inch it takes to do that, tell me and I'll add the correct statistic.. but fact is, the human body is considerably softer than oak. If I actually put all my weight on a person and walked on them in my boots, my 120lbs(+leathers) channeled thru the steel points of my stilettos would cause them to look like a badly aerated lawn that leaks blood.
Of course, if you want me to walk on you barefoot, or fake a stiletto trampling scene, that is very easy. Trampling fantasies themselves are cool.. very archtypal, like the ancient hindu statues of Shakti trampling the Buddah or her consort Shiva underfoot. Tantric. Beautiful.
My gorgeous beloved steel rack is 7'5" high, and I am 5'8" barefoot, and long limbed. My pictures aren't stretched, I really do have comic fantasy proportions.. but I am well stretched, myself..
Several times a day I go into my playroom and hang by my arms from the top bar of my rack for a few minutes. It is an incredibly refreshing way to stretch out my spine after working at my computer. So it is very easy for me to do very safe trampling scenes, using my strong arms and my beautiful rack to keep my balance and support most or all of my weight while I tiptoe over the submissive.
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