Empathy begins to show up as the ego-barriers of separation/individuality break down into greater and greater unity.. on the path to becoming "All that Is". Some folks become plagued by too much sensitivity to the emotions of others, and resisting this effect by putting up alot of shields and barriers often only makes it worse, what you focus on with fear, grows into monsters.
Resistance is useless. It is more effective to surrender to the unity, and process the emotional content on behalf of self and other.

What is needed at that place is to recognise that Empathy-unity come from Kundalini in action, and experiencing it, is Goddess offering an opportunity to exercise compassion.. an investment opportunity, what we send out returns multiplied, and what goes around comes around.. so once one begins to take on the task of doing, the K-fire return payback is a nice rocket ship.

We can only see in another, what is reflected in ourselves, so the experiences of other, are also bringing up our own karma to be released, as we release it from others. Process of Karma Yoga, I think it's called, in the East.

As K. does it's magic and our stuff is released, the process of taking on Karma thru empathy/presence goes more autopilot. That which is not reflected doesn't stick, doesn't require conscious attention to release. It just flows thru, and the wider the flow, the more quickly it is swept away by the current.

When free will has been surrendered, there is no free will to provide resistance to empathy. It is at the earlier stages, when other people's stuff is triggering our own crap, that more free will attention to conscious surrender is needed.

The process that begins as an annoying receptivity to other people's feelings, at it's completion is the Presence of Grace.. brush against the sleeve of the Holy one, and you're cured of cancer. ) I'm not quite at that stage, yet...

Karma can be very complex, but understanding all of the threads of it is not what is needed from the vessel.. the K. handles that part, Shakti's infinite wisdom takes care of it better than a human mind can comprehend.. I just allow myself to be used, as the tool of compassion, and I get just enough information to be guided in my actions, but I am not shown all of the ripples...

Empathy is the simplest form of Tantric Unity.. if you are feeling someone else's feelings, it is because two have become one. Their feelings have now become yours, so you can use your free will to surrender them. When you release them within yourself, they lift from the source, as well.. because 2 are 1.

It is impossible to change the world, except by changing inside yourself. Change others by becoming them and then changing inside of yourself. When it happens spontaneously, Goddess has given consent, and She also provides the power. To do it deliberately, simply identify with the person, Like "walking a mile in their moccasins".. focus on the unity of all things, and on them being a part of you, and you will establish unity with them, and begin to feel their feelings.

However, when doing it as an act of free will rather than Divine inspiration, it is important to get consent from the person you are working on, either from them personally, or from their higher self. Otherwise they might not be done with the stuff you are trying to clear, and you'll be kind of stuck with it.

Especially in the beginning, it is important not to bite off more than you can chew.. beware the road of "good intentions". Judging someone as "needing fixing" according to one's own egoistic opinions gets real messy, coz it is one's own resistance to other that is the true motive, and that resistance will multiply like bunnies and wear you out. Gotta take the stone from your own eye, first.

Where there is not resistance there is a superconductor.. ) Compassion is the ideal motive, but I have noticed that sometimes Goddess will use annoyance to draw my attention to things, just as she uses pain in my own body to tell me where is stuff of other that is wanting compassion.
However, as with blockages and lessons, my first action is to surrender my annoyance, then I am told the purpose of it being used to get my attention. Usually at that point I can act on it compassionately, with understanding.

Sometimes annoyance is used to get me past my "spiritual person" "Nice grrl" programming/resistance/detachment/laziness so I say things that are not nice, but need saying. All things have their duality.. an example of a positive use of righteous anger is "MADD Mothers against drunk driving".

Anger can be a positive motivation, but I tend not to trust my anger enough to act on it, unless I have already spent some time trying to release it unsuccessfully within myself.

I actually use a lot of different methods, when I am working with someone to clear their karmc blockages and smooth the path of K. Everything from Shaktizap by attention of eye-lasers, to callng on the Archangels, or the violet flame of St.Germane. I am guided thru the work, and get impuses about what needs clearing and what technique to use. I also use the power of the Grail, and sometimes Tummo fire.. but those are opened experientially.. not everybody can access those, so I'll pass on simpler methods. I guess the first thing to consider is, what is Karma? I think of Karma as the emotional content of memories. Karma in action is re-acting to previous memory experience. Re-acting as opposed to responding. The expression, "once burnt, twice shy" describes it well.. the negative emotional memory of pain from the past, causes a reaction in the now. Whether you see the glass half-full or half-empty.. your unique personal ego-perspective.. depends on the whole previous positive or negative experience you have had of full glasses and empty glasses, etc. When these emotional memories are cleared, there is simply a glass with some liquid in it, and no need to make judgments. How you respond to the glass will depend entirely on the needs of the now, not on programmed re-actions from the past. Negative experiences create limiting beliefs, that we cherish as "lessons".. like, "nice guys finish last", or "life is hard then you die". Our beliefs create our experiences that is Karma manifesting. Some people think they need to hang onto the Karma until they get the lesson from it, but that is an ego-trick showing lack of faith. You have to give up what you think you know, to make room for new information. That is why Zen Koans are so confusing. Believing in a need for lessons is an attachment, and ego-illusion. Have faith. If Spirit wants you to know something, synchronicity can make sure you get the message. An email, a line from a movie or a song on the radio will resonate with wonderful meaning, if you are open to hearing it and not blinded by preconceptions. Goddess provides. Chuck the blockages, make room for Divine insight. All of our opinions and beliefs do not define the infinite, and by surrendering them we make room for something better. Every time you ground yourself, separation-beliefs erode and are replaced with the Knowing that is Unity.. know nothing, be everything. Judging Karma bad or good is illusory.. both are attachments. "Maybe good luck, maybe bad luck, time will tell". We are not big enough to know all of the ripples from any action. What we call good karma is usually the bright memories.. but those take one out of the now as surely as the bad ones, and they can become an addiction that keep you in the past or the future, out of the Now. Like Alzheimer patients who have retreated into their happy childhoods, and abandoned the Now... or the compulsive gambler trying to recreate that one "lucky" win. However, it is the stuff we judge as bad karma that most likely we are most in a hurry to be rid of. It is by the emotional content of Karma, that we discover it. I find I watch people as I speak with them, and I notice the movements of their energy body as they re-act. Most often I see what look like grey cloudy abstract shapes that approximately correspond to muscle groups, and have threadlike conections that trace the acupuncture meridians. Also muscular tension, what Wilhelm Reich calls "body armoring". Muslces are held tight around the memory of old wounds. If I am doing it by remote I will use empathy to unify with the person I am working on, and feel the stuff in my own body. Usually, as mild physical discomfort that draws my attention to what areas need clearing. For example, if I am dealing with someone who has a lot of power chakra issues, I might feel a tightness around the bottom of my ribs like I cannot take a deep full breath, or a knot in my stomach, or an ache in my back... I observe the sensation with detachment, not resistance.. it just Is.. and get an idea of the size and shape of it. Get a handle on it, so to speak.. so I can give it away. If I am feeling fancy I will follow the connections it makes thru the body. Most stuff will make a complete circuit up and down of the body, where it is feeding on the energy meridians.. with my attention I might trace a stomach knot's threads down one leg and thru the foot into the earth, back in the heel, up the back of the leg following it's own path to the boulders and around one side of the head, and back down the front to the knot. However, usually I am too lazy for that, and instead just ask Goddess for everything attached to the knot to be removed as well. My work is *faith* based. Anything you believe in, will work, if you put faith in it.. It is the mustard seed, that is the key. The more you do this kind of work, the more you believe you *can* do it, and that is the difference. Goddess provides, according to how much you allow Her to, by your faith. Creative visualization fueled by K. is quite a power. Self limiting, too, since I cannot use it to accomplish what is not Divine will. Actually, I don't even see other people's stuff, unless I'm supposed to act in compassion. Beware of acting out of pity: pity is a separation-judgment, the road to hell of good intentions. The value of pity is it's reflective quality, it will tend to make you count your own blessings by comparison, and gratitude fuels the power chakra. However, as a motive to heal another, it is unworkable because it is separation. Sympathy is better, it leads to empathy=Unity and engages the power of compassion. I clear a lot of stuff by asking my male unconscious, who manifests as Archangel Michael, to handle it. He does. The Archangels can do anything, but they are not allowed to interfere unless we ask them to. Faith is like a muscle, the more you exercise it the stronger it gets. Practice, practice, practice..) You can use these techniques on yourself, and it is good to do so. If you are first learning to ground, and draw on the universal light, do the 45 days of grounding 8x a day, and let what is loose wash away and erode on it's own before trying to actively seek out blockages. If you try to do this work before you have become adept at keeping the flow moving and staying in a non-judgmental state, you might get ungrounded by the blockages and make them grow with the energy of your attention, instead of releasing them. Discovering the blockages is very simple. First, get well grounded, and in a peaceful, attentive state. "Lock in" the incoming energy, so the light continues flowing without your conscious attention to it, and then, start to examine where it travels thru you, and where it does not go, within you. Look for the places where the light is not, starting with your toes and moving slowly up though your body as you clear stuff and the light starts flowing where it wasn't. The more you do this, the easier it gets, because your nconscious cooperates with the process, willingly showing you what it wants your consent to release. It thinks cleaning your karmic closet is a fun game. If stuff is stubborn to go, check your grounding.. most likely you have become ungrounded by the effort. Shift your attention back to re-establishing the flow of light and the non-judgmental state, and then go back and clear the blockage. When you are done clearing stuff each session, make that intention clear, or the process will continue on the unconscious level, but it will happen with karmic issues coming up externally in life events, instead of quietly in meditation. Messy. Tell your unconsious that you are done for now, with the intention to return to do more later. If you or the person you are working on are not grounded, you might find you get a headache from the energy being blocked by a closed crown chakra. Open the flower, and let the energy flow out. If you have finished working on another person, wash your hands like Pontius pilate to symbilically rinse away anything of theirs that might still be lingering in you, and to disconnect the empathy so you are not still feeling somebody else's emotions, hours later. How to clear stuff 1) Blockages: Faith method. Give it to Goddess, or whatever Deity or force you honor. Just say "God-dess, please take this from me, it is a gift for You. It's Yours. Thankyou very much." I do that a hundred times a day, with every decision. I hand it up to higher guidance. Then distract yourself from what you have just handed over, by taking a very deep breath or two, and thinking of your tingly feet. If you like, imagine you are breathing light in through your feet. This is a complicated enough shift in focus to detach you from thinking about the blockage. The shift of attention means you are not maintaining an attachment to what has been surrendered, clinging to it by focusing on it. Goddess provides. Feel it flowing out your head, usually.. but sometimes out your feet, and sometimes burning up in heart chakra alchemy or simply disappearing. Time and space don't really exist, so concepts of "where" it goes can be individual. Sometimes it's release will be accompanied with muscle twitches and a desire to stretch. Muscles tighten against the old memories of pain, and relax when the memory is cleared with twitching kriyas. One of the most dramatic cases of this, one of my slaves grew 5 inches taller in a single night, as all of the crap that held him in a slouched posture, curled protectively around his belly, fell away. He grew tall very young, and what happens sometimes with tall men is that thier inner growth gets stunted because they get treated as adults when they are really still children, and they don't quite "grow into" their body. They feel small tho they are big, and one indication of this is a tendency to clumsiness. He went from not being able to touch my 8' ceiling no matter how he stretched, to being able to press both thumbs against it in a matter of a few hours, as the limiting beliefs of smallness were released and his body straightened out. Essentially, the action and the prayer takes several parts. The words I have chosen look very simple, but get to know it because every word is chosen with care, and the only word to alter is to insert the name of your chosen Diety in place of "God-dess", if you choose. "God-dess, please take this from me, it is a gift for You. It's Yours. Thankyou very much." Recognition of stuff, somehow thru visualization or feeling, getting a grasp on the blockage with awareness in order to identify it, point to it somehow with your attention. Basically to define the intention of what "this" that is being surrendered refers to.. but as simply as possible, not trying to find out too much about it coz your focus of curiosity will make it grow. "This" might be, this pain in my body, this feeling of doubt, this funny grey bit of resistance I am seeing/feeling, this annoyance with so and so.. any way you can point to it, to indicate what the gift is, will work. The reason you offer it as a *gift*, is that Goddess doesn't judge it, and your negative opinion of wanting it gone, is also an attachment that magnetizes it to you. Reverse the polarity of the magnetic attachment with gratitude. Everything in life, including life itself is a gift of Spirit, whether we judge it gift or garbage from our limited perspective, gift is what it Is, so name it that and skip the judgments. Try not to be sarcastic, that is more resistance. "It's Yours." Affirming that Goddess owns everything, being All that Is, and that includes our ego/individuality/fear/separation beliefs that make us think some stuff is "ours".. We asked to be individuals and so we got what we prayed for, illusions of fear and separation.. and now we can give it back again. Give it all back, and see life thru the eyes of Spirit. "Thankyou very much", is thanking Spirit for accepting the gift.. which is showing faith that you believe and expect that It will accept it, that It has and is being taken. Thankyou is showing trust that nails the request into the Now, instead of leaving it to the vague future. Thankyou seals the deal like "Amen" or "So mote it be". "Thankyou" is the affirmation of faith that sprouts the mustard seed into fruition. Notice if you forget to say thankyou..that means there is more stuff attached that you didn't give away, you are not done yet. Shifting your attention to taking a deep breath afterwards, detaches attention from it, and also shows that you believe it is handled, Spirit will take care of it, and you are not gonna worry about it anymore. Faith, surrender and gratitude, do the magic. Don't worry about giving up too much, or giving away something you need. It all belongs to Spirit, anyways.. What is given to Goddess, comes back better if it is still needed. Take a look and see, for yourself. After the pause of breath, gently turn your attention to where the thing you gave away used to be.. parcularly if you are giving up personal issues or annoying situations, and you will discover you see it, if it is still present, completely differently... Spirit's eye view. All of it's silver linings will be showing. Give up karma, get back insight and compassion. 2)Question method for entities. The whole issue of what is an entity and how do entities differ from blockages is a fuzzy one. Most entities are siply human ghosts that are looking for another body instead of going into the light where they belong, and often such entities are relatives, departed grandparents or ancestors. Some kinds of entities might appear as aliens, etc., some are simply though forms that have grown big enough to become self-aware. Some are delibeately created, by acts of magic whose creators may be long dead and have left their creatures orphaned, or created acidenatally, like childhood ivisible playmates or worries nursed too long. Some may be lovers fro past lives, fulfilling a long dead promise of "forever love". Blockages and issues are essentially, the karma of previous limiting decisions. Thoughts are *things*, and all *things* have consciousness, so it is actually possible to clear everything from allergies to possession by ghosts, by speaking to it directly, and asking it to transmute into light. Treat blockages as entities.. Thoughts in the body do seem to take on a life of their own, eh? Precede your request with this series of questions directed at the feeling/blockage/entity/illness/ghost. Do not listen to the answers to the questions. The answers are simply the chaff of ego, and giving your attention to it's answers empowers it to wanna stay put... Some of the questions are repeated several times, so I'll indicate that and save typing.. What is your purpose? What is the value in holding onto this body? (or home, or location, etc., for clearing ghosts from places.) What are you? What were you before that? And before that? (10 x) What will you be in the future? What will you be after that? And after that? (10 x) You don't have to do that anymore. Unconditional love can find a better way. Transmute into light. Technique originally from "Access" light working technologies, via Carol Hathor.. www.soulwisdom.net They call it "Trilite entity clearing".. I refined it a bit.. it's really easy to do. I did this one with <...>, and she said it was a classic hypnosis induction.. her logical mind.. she could not explain tho, my confession that it was the third time during that telephone conversation that I had used it to clear her blockages, the first two had been by silent telepathy, the third time out loud, for demonstration purposes, so she could learn it herself...) hee hee.. The questions disconnect the entity from the present moment, so they remember they did not always take the form they have now. Originally, they were made of light, came from light, ("we are the transmitter of thought, not it's originators"-Itzak Bentov) and they happily go back there once they have been reminded that they have the option. They transmute when given permission by your free will. Sometimes I tell them there is a fabulous welcome party there waiting just for them, or the light is where to find whatever it is they are seeking. I don't reject them, Resistance is useless. Instead I persuade them that someplace else will be more fun. Since thru the unconscious we are all connected.. it works by thought just fine. Think of the column of light above your head, to show it where to go.. and it will. Usually it will have a collection of supporting thoughts and considerations around it/connected to it, and since these are all now leaderless, give them all permission to transmute, as well.. this will clear it from every cell.. I like to do an extra cleanup, by clearing it throughout the hologram.. Ask Spirt for the stuff to be transmuted totally in all dimensions, realities, levels, reflections, etc.. throughout the entire multidimensional universe of All that Is, in top-down fashion from point of origin. This causes stuff to vanish/transmute from it's origin in the past, and it's non-existence as an influence ripples forward thru time like dominos falling, to cease existing in the Now. It's fun. Fun to watch folks change in response to the work of your thoughts. Nature abhors a vacuum, so it is important to fill the "holes" with light or else a clearing session can leave you feeling kind of "empty", and seeking attachments to fill the void. Surrender the karmic stuff, then also surrender the hole where it used to be.. like a bugs bunny cartoon, portable holes, hand them over..LOL!! "Goddess please take the hole/space/place and fill it with Your Grace and Light. Thankyou very much." Breathe in light, thru your feet. 3) Burn it up with the Violet flame of St. Germain.. Ask the blessings of the St., and fill and surround yourself with violet light.. crown chakra color for Divine Will and insights. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Welcome to Boddhisatva. You have become Ground Crew. You were given the empathic experience of unity, in order to learn the alchemy of transmuting the Karma of another.. which by reflection, is yours, anyways.. there is only One. This stuff will be cleared, something else will be cleared another day, in another person. Good paychecks, Karma wise, for the compassionate work. Everything given to Goddess returns multiplied blessings. No-place to go but up. The empathy is Goddess saying here is an opportunity to Serve. Tell Her Thankyou.

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